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The best gifts for kids

Nine picks weighted towards open-ended play, and a short list of questions to ask the parents.

By Brijon M.Published

The best gifts for kids are open-ended rather than single-purpose: building sets, puzzles, art materials, and games that need another person. Ask the parents about space, noise and whether the house is screen-free before you buy anything.

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Quick picks

The short answer, ranked. Tap any row for the full reasoning, or go straight to the current price.

#ProductBest forScorePrice
1
A simple flower arrangement in a vase

Botanical Collection flower set

A few hours of something to do, and then an object that stays out.

An older child or a teenager who still likes building8.58.5 out of 10, our editorial score
2
A board game set up on a table

Modern strategy board game

A gift that turns into an evening rather than an object

A family that will actually play it8.78.7 out of 10, our editorial score
3
Jigsaw puzzle pieces on a table

1000-piece art jigsaw puzzle

Cheap, screen-free, and quietly social

A quiet, screen-free gift at a very low price8.78.7 out of 10, our editorial score
4
An instant camera with printed photos

Instax Mini 12 instant camera

A physical photo is a novelty again, and that is the appeal.

A child old enough to look after a camera8.58.5 out of 10, our editorial score
5
A handheld games console on a table

Nintendo Switch OLED

The console that works on a sofa and on a train.

A household gift rather than a bedroom one8.48.4 out of 10, our editorial score
6
An open book with marked pages

Book Darts line markers, tin of 75

Thin brass markers that hold a line, not just a page.

A young reader who annotates everything9.39.3 out of 10, our editorial score
7
A stack of cloth-bound hardcover books

Clothbound Classics hardcover

A book they have probably read, in an edition they would not buy themselves.

A gift that lasts beyond childhood8.68.6 out of 10, our editorial score
8
An enamel mug outdoors

Enamel camp mug

Goes on a campfire, in a dishwasher, and in a rucksack

Camping, picnics and the garden8.68.6 out of 10, our editorial score
9
Pieces of dark chocolate on paper

Single-origin chocolate selection

Better than the supermarket box by a margin they will notice

A small addition, with the parents' blessing9.09.0 out of 10, our editorial score

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Ask the parents four things

Is there space? Large toys are a real imposition in a flat, and the parents are the ones who will live with it.

Any rules about screens? Plenty of households have a position on this, and a tablet game as a surprise gift puts the parents in a difficult spot.

Does it need batteries, and will it make noise? Both are reasonable things for the parents to have a view on.

Do they already have it? Especially for building sets and games, where duplication is common and the boxes are large.

Open-ended beats single-purpose

The toys that survive past the first fortnight are the ones that can be used more than one way. Building sets, art materials, blocks, construction toys, dressing-up things. The ones that do not are the ones with a single scripted function — they are exciting for an afternoon and then finished.

Games that require another person are the other reliable category, because the social element renews them. A game that needs a parent gets played at bedtime for months.

Age bands, roughly

Under five: chunky, durable, nothing with small parts. Five to eight: building, art, simple games with rules. Nine to twelve: more complex sets, real tools and real hobbies, first cameras. Thirteen and up is a different category entirely — see gifts for teens.

Err upwards rather than downwards on recommended ages for building sets if the child is confident; err downwards on anything with reading or dexterity involved.

What each budget buys

Under $25: a puzzle, a book, art materials, a set of brass book darts for a young reader. Under $50: a board game, a building set, an enamel camping set. Over $100: a camera, a console, or a large building set — and all three are worth clearing with the parents first.

The picks, in full

Every pick includes who it is wrong for. Prices move constantly, so we link to the current one rather than printing a number that goes stale.

A simple flower arrangement in a vase
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1. An older child or a teenager who still likes building

Botanical Collection flower set

LEGO

A few hours of something to do, and then an object that stays out.

Two lives in one gift: the building, and then a finished object that stays out. For an older child it avoids the thing that makes many toys awkward at that age — it is not babyish, and it does not need a screen.

Skip it if: They find fiddly assembly stressful rather than relaxing.

Safe bet
8.6
Thoughtful
9.0
Value
8.2
Gets used
8.0
A board game set up on a table
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2. A family that will actually play it

Modern strategy board game

Various publishers

A gift that turns into an evening rather than an object

Modern board games are a long way from the ones adults remember badly. Aim for something that plays in under an hour and teaches in five minutes, which is the range where a game gets played repeatedly rather than once. It also needs other people, which is usually a feature.

Skip it if: They live alone and do not host. Games need people.

Safe bet
8.6
Thoughtful
8.8
Value
9.0
Gets used
8.2
Jigsaw puzzle pieces on a table
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3. A quiet, screen-free gift at a very low price

1000-piece art jigsaw puzzle

Various

Cheap, screen-free, and quietly social

Choose the piece count by age rather than by picture — too hard and it becomes a source of frustration rather than absorption. Check they have a surface that can stay occupied for a few days.

Skip it if: They have no surface they can leave occupied for days.

Safe bet
8.8
Thoughtful
8.0
Value
9.6
Gets used
8.2
An instant camera with printed photos
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4. A child old enough to look after a camera

Instax Mini 12 instant camera

Fujifilm

A physical photo is a novelty again, and that is the appeal.

Point, shoot, and a picture comes out. Buy film with it — the camera without film is a disappointment on the day, and a twin pack is the minimum to make it feel like a complete gift.

Skip it if: You are not also buying film. This is the single most common mistake with this gift.

Safe bet
8.6
Thoughtful
8.8
Value
8.4
Gets used
8.0
A handheld games console on a table
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5. A household gift rather than a bedroom one

Nintendo Switch OLED

Nintendo

The console that works on a sofa and on a train.

It is the only major console that is also a handheld, which is why it suits a household rather than a bedroom. Check what they already own before buying: a second Switch in a house is a waste, an extra controller is not.

Skip it if: They are a PC or PlayStation player. Buy a game or a gift card for the thing they use.

Safe bet
8.4
Thoughtful
8.0
Value
7.8
Gets used
9.2
An open book with marked pages
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6. A young reader who annotates everything

Book Darts line markers, tin of 75

Book Darts

Thin brass markers that hold a line, not just a page.

They cost less than a paperback, they fit inside a card, and anyone who annotates immediately understands why they exist. This is the stocking stuffer that gets mentioned months later.

Skip it if: They read almost entirely on a screen.

Safe bet
9.2
Thoughtful
9.4
Value
9.8
Gets used
8.8
A stack of cloth-bound hardcover books
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7. A gift that lasts beyond childhood

Clothbound Classics hardcover

Penguin

A book they have probably read, in an edition they would not buy themselves.

The trick with gifting books is to give an object rather than a recommendation. A clothbound edition of something they already love sidesteps the whole problem of taste: you are not telling them what to read, you are upgrading what they have.

Skip it if: They are a minimalist who has been actively getting rid of books.

Safe bet
8.6
Thoughtful
9.2
Value
8.8
Gets used
7.8
An enamel mug outdoors
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8. Camping, picnics and the garden

Enamel camp mug

Various

Goes on a campfire, in a dishwasher, and in a rucksack

It is a simple object that does not break, works outdoors, and costs very little. As a stocking stuffer it is more interesting than another novelty mug, and it is the sort of thing that ends up permanently in a car or a tent.

Skip it if: They want something that keeps a drink hot — enamel does the opposite.

Safe bet
8.6
Thoughtful
7.6
Value
9.6
Gets used
8.6
Pieces of dark chocolate on paper
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9. A small addition, with the parents' blessing

Single-origin chocolate selection

Various makers

Better than the supermarket box by a margin they will notice

Craft chocolate tastes genuinely different from mass-market chocolate, and a tasting selection gives the recipient something to compare rather than just something to eat. It is the easiest way to spend thirty dollars well on someone you barely know.

Skip it if: There is a nut allergy in the house and you cannot verify the production line.

Safe bet
9.4
Thoughtful
7.8
Value
9.0
Gets used
9.6

Questions people ask

What makes a good gift for a child?

Open-ended play. Building sets, art materials, blocks and games that need another person all get used for months; single-purpose toys with one scripted function are exciting for an afternoon.

What should I ask the parents before buying a gift for their child?

Whether there is space, whether the household has rules about screens, whether noise and batteries are a problem, and whether they already have it. Large boxes and duplicated building sets are the two most common complaints.

Are board games good gifts for kids?

Yes, if they play in under an hour and teach in five minutes. That range is where a game gets played again rather than once, and the fact that it needs another person is what keeps it fresh.

Should I buy the age-recommended version or go up a level?

Go up for building sets if the child is confident, and stay at or below the recommendation for anything that depends on reading or fine motor skills. A set that is too hard gets abandoned.

References

Still deciding?

Narrow it down by who you are buying for, or set a number and work from there.

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